tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post824015338096022814..comments2024-02-14T16:55:38.267+11:00Comments on chunkychooky: Bah humbug part 2Cath @ chunkychookyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07926661077860579075noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-18817527451022274952013-05-23T04:41:10.260+10:002013-05-23T04:41:10.260+10:00bbq time / beеr time is approachіng. If Ι can just...bbq time / beеr time is approachіng. If Ι can just read all thіs artісle <br />in the next fiѵe minutes I'll be able to chill and have fun.<br /><br />Also visit my web blog <a href="https://cryptoparty.org/wiki/User:MarlonKir" rel="nofollow">best personal loans</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-30345833290378560572013-05-20T07:41:30.066+10:002013-05-20T07:41:30.066+10:00If you aгe going to do it as well then I'm not...If you aгe going to do it as well then I'm not doing it! 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The logistics of him getting to every child did have me stumped though! I never thought I would "do" the Santa thing with my children... it really just evolved. I don't think of it as lying (same with the tooth fairy)... rather a fictional story that is fun. We emphasise donating to those in need and all presents are either baked or second hand ( Santas gift consists of chocolate only which gets me off the hook for enabling!) My 10 year old daughter realised last year it was all a story about Santa, and just as I did as a child laughed and wanted to know how we did it all "You mean the cake and milk was eaten by you and Dad that night?...Did you eat the reindeers carrot?" She now enjoys "talking "about Santa with her younger brother but it really is not the big focus of Christmas for us. To be honest it would seem more a big deal to avoid the story. The world is lacking myths and if I can hijack coke a colas creation so be it! Mind you we never do the Santa sit on knee shopping centre thing. More creepy than mythy! Good luck with it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-66324434828179939372009-12-10T05:44:43.405+11:002009-12-10T05:44:43.405+11:00great post! the Santa question is a big one...i th...great post! the Santa question is a big one...i think the letter "Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus" is nice to read since it essentially talks about the GIVING spirit which is usually named 'Santa' at this time of year, but goes under the name 'Charity' for the rest of the year...(hmmm, i may have to write about that on my blog - i'll be sure to link back here!)<br /><br />and it is sad to see how someone was so disappointed to learn that there was NO ONE so nice and giving as 'Santa' =-(The Creative Beasthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12650011991825745500noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-7764821363625163192009-12-10T00:53:45.452+11:002009-12-10T00:53:45.452+11:00The Santa issue is a problematic one that is for s...The Santa issue is a problematic one that is for sure. We try to avoid the issue as much as we can but I've already spun a few lies... such as - the real Santa will never tell you that that is who he is and that he always speaks in rhymes (because I'm freaked out that my son will just walk off with some perve dressed in red claiming to be Santa).<br />Both of our children have HUGE Santa sacks that could easily double as sleeping bags. They are filled almost entirely with red and green balloons which then spill out to fill our loungeroom on Christmas day. To date the balloons have always been more popular than the couple of presents also found in the sacks.<br />We don't put the Christmas tree up until after the children have gone to bed on Christmas Eve - so it comes as a bit of shock to wake up to a tree in the middle of the lounge room. The tree is removed before the cricket starts on boxing day... <br />we're baaa humbug here too!!!Sallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05131518522010494497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-42301225223300274602009-12-09T22:46:21.027+11:002009-12-09T22:46:21.027+11:00hmm. Everyone obviously has very different and str...hmm. Everyone obviously has very different and strong opinions on this one! I just allow the magic that children naturally have to be there. I answer questions as honestly as I can, and to be honest I have no more trouble answering father christmas questions than some of the other corkers my boy comes up with. Hope the joy finds you all this year. I still feel the magic and don't find a lie amongst it all. My parents must ahve done a great job as I still glow in the joy of Christmas - not the comercialism - the joy.Umatjihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15413838821059854456noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-86251940629807376252009-12-09T20:23:31.574+11:002009-12-09T20:23:31.574+11:00I don't remember when I figured out about Sant...I don't remember when I figured out about Santa but I do remember every Xmas sorting through all of my toys & the ones I didn't want went to the Dr Barnardos charity which I was more than happy to do every year.Charishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04660480515664679559noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-64641631294350319262009-12-09T14:55:56.471+11:002009-12-09T14:55:56.471+11:00Santa's no big deal in our house, and I don...Santa's no big deal in our house, and I don't think my kids are missing out on any magic. I haven't really built him up to be anything special or magical and they tend to just think of him as something that goes along with Christmas like trees and baubles and decorated shopping centres. I prefer to create magical childhood memories that DON'T contain made-up stuff (although I am partial to the tooth fairy).<br /><br />My kids still wake up to some presents under the tree....it doesn't particularly concern them who put them there!<br /><br />We don't really make that big a deal about Christmas....we're a bit more of a birthday family!Jetta's Nesthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16646867584138036300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-28577240012785488512009-12-09T14:47:48.699+11:002009-12-09T14:47:48.699+11:00All those comments and not a word to poor chef, we...All those comments and not a word to poor chef, well that just sums it for me.. Poor Santa could fall off the roof onto said cactus, couldn't he?friends don't let friends become vegetarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16096126448531682691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-70756934194059486912009-12-09T12:16:46.623+11:002009-12-09T12:16:46.623+11:00My friend, who's a single mum, has been trying...My friend, who's a single mum, has been trying to figure this out recently. One of her issues was with the idea of tellnig her daughter that a strange man was going to come through the roof! <br /><br />We really play it down here too, but it's so difficult - people are constantly asking Ivy 'Have you told Santa what you want yet?' and 'Have you written your list?'...drives me crazy. I hate that idea of kids crying on Christmas morning becuase they got the wrong Bratz doll...ugh.Rachael @Mogantoshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07284324325966835237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-13989092378155435352009-12-09T11:28:28.575+11:002009-12-09T11:28:28.575+11:00I'm not really into Christmas, and with the wh...I'm not really into Christmas, and with the whole santa issue, I've told my kids I have never actually met Santa. They just feel its magic and I will leave them with that.rachelmphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06235189646730926145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-35150856708380083212009-12-09T10:58:53.085+11:002009-12-09T10:58:53.085+11:00http://sketchysantas.com/ :Dhttp://sketchysantas.com/ :Dflossy-phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15207372419069284680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-80069380324101956132009-12-09T10:42:55.490+11:002009-12-09T10:42:55.490+11:00As we've talked about, it's the lying that...As we've talked about, it's the lying that I am having trouble with. And I know that I survived and lots of others did... and that the flip side is the magical part of it. I too have great memories of Christmas morning with my sisters and I all running out to see if Santa had drank the beer (not surprisingly, always yes!) and if Rudolph had eaten the carrot. The other thing is we never got presents from Mum & Dad, only from Santa - so they got no thanks from us. Like you, in our house Santa will leave small treats and the kids will be given presents from us. Christmas, presents, Santa, conforming, believing, deciding, lying.... lots to think about but I guess we all have to do what we feel comfortable with and what suits our families.Nikkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10921667979758743998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-63693511213330484512009-12-09T10:29:25.720+11:002009-12-09T10:29:25.720+11:00You absolutely have to create your own family trad...You absolutely have to create your own family traditions. And only you two can decide about the Santa situation. For what it is worth I used to look after a little girl(E,age4) whose family did NOT have Santa ,rather they expounded the virtues of caring individuals doing generous acts for others. This made things a little tricky around the other 4 yo girl I had in my care at that time. E and I had several discussions about people having different beliefs and not also about why it was important to allow someone their own ideas and views. Perhaps addressing the societal norms with your child as she grows older are worth factoring in to your decision.<br /><br />Thus endeth the lesson for today <br />;-)trashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13623440501234583451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1435525396415770169.post-36109151847826498742009-12-09T09:09:11.283+11:002009-12-09T09:09:11.283+11:00You have to follow your own instincts with this on...You have to follow your own instincts with this one. We have santa but the gift giving is very low key and then we stay home from people house's so that my kids don't think that santa wasn't as generous!! I can remember being told that santa wasn't true and mum sitting down explaining it and then I understood the magic behind the myth. I was cool with it because I felt OLDER than the little kids and it was my roll to then keep the magic going for them. It can still be fun, just stick to your gut and maybe handle it a little different to your parents.Leonie Guldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09787448815326799495noreply@blogger.com